Pick Up Lines that Work

Pickup lines have had an interesting reputation. For many, using pickup lines have either gotten them slapped, walked away from, or some other way that simply conveys that the woman isn't going to give you the time of day.

If you really want to meet women, you are going to have to start conversations women them. You can use the right kind of pickup line to do this. A great pickup line is a great conversation starter, and great conversation starters follow some specific principles.

Bring her into the conversation with a great conversation starter. Long lived are questions that pose a yes or no answer. Use open-ended questions. A great way to start a conversation you can keep in your bag of tricks for times when you are looking for something to say is to ask a woman for her opinion on something. This engages her in the conversation, and you can take the conversation through multiple avenues as a result. You can find out how to do this at: Conversation Starters

Giving women comliments are typically not great ways to start a conversation. Make sure your conversation starter really engages her into the conversation.

Remember that having some "stock" things to say allow you to be able to say things to her if you happen to be nervous while you practice your approaching skills.

Every time I approach a woman (and I do it within 3 seconds of spotting her), I never know what's going to come out of my mouth until I've already said it. Reason why is because I know several things to say to fall back on, and I'm really great at quickly observing a situation so that I can use a "situational opener."

You can create a conversation starter by using what's going on around you. Although that might sound obvious, guys many times don't use one. Quickly observe the area, and take something you can ask her about that would ENGAGE her in the conversation. If you're in a book store and she's holding a book, note the title, determine the type of book it is (say, romance novels), and come up with a question to ask like: "Why do you think so many women like romance novels? What is it about them that capture a woman's mind?"

Get the idea?

If you want to know additional conversational starters and other pick up lines that work, or even how to approach women WITHOUT rejection, check out: Conversation Starters