Learn to kiss is probably one of the most typed phrase, the most searched topic on the web and is also considered as the most interesting subject matter among teens, young adults or even those who have been saving their lips for that special, sizzling and soulful experience that they’re waiting to share with their loved one.
But before we get too mushy and overly romantic about this topic, let’s go into some important details and let me lead you to a relaxed, serine environment (so if you’re too nervous, and panicky about this situation, please take a break!) to prepare you for this great and elating episode of your life.
Now, let me just share some “learn to kiss”, techniques on how this experience can be of so much fun and be fairly easy! If you're already doing it, you're probably doing it right, since there is no wrong way to kissing another. And if you're NOT doing it yet, trust me—there’s no need to rush! Whether you’re young or old enough to still be exploring this, you can still learn this skill ‘cause this is FOR all ages. However, you might ask “But how will I do it?”, or worse, “How will it be memorable enough?”. People who make out all the time can remember one kiss so good that they measure all future smooches by it, and what if your partner is one of those people?
THE KISSING ESSENTIALS
As you become a great kisser, practice some new moves to delight your special someone. These are so cool and rare that they'd make even the biggest players go, "She knows something I don’t!" Try these four kisses, one at a time, and have fun! (1) The Sweet Kiss: pop a piece of candy in your mouth and take turns passing back and forth until it's gone. Oohhh, you’ve got to try this and surely, he’ll be captivated with your sweet luscious lips every time you pass the candy to him. (2) The Talking Kiss: get close like you're going to kiss, and then tell a joke--your lips will touch and you'll both laugh and find it super thrilling. (3) The Electric Kiss: rub your feet back and forth on a carpet and give him a little shock when you kiss. This one will surely be memorable, but in a good way, believe me! (4) The Teasing Kiss: Tell him to stand absolutely still for one minute while you're allowed to kiss him however you want--he'll go nuts! His imagination will run wild! Without a doubt, you'd be more comfortable, that is hot, and as a great kisser that is even hotter than ever!
Now that you’ve kissing tips and a few things on how to get it started, here are a list of the 8 important reminders to be put in mind at ALL times:
1.) Be kissable - Whether you’re a girl or a boy, I suggest that you use a lip balm, especially if your lips tend to get dry and chapped. Soft, silky smooth lips are simply more enticing. Most importantly, nobody wants to kiss someone with a stinky mouth, so carry some breath mints or gum with you, especially if you’re going out on a date. Breath mints are preferable, because you can use them in a pinch and not have to worry about getting rid of them.
2.) Test the waters - Pay attention to signals that the other person is into you and is ready for a kiss. Is he ok caressing you? Does he brush up against you or frequently enter your personal space with playful, innocent touches. Has the subject of kissing or love come up in conversation?
3.) Wait for the right moment - There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, particularly a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is perfectly right. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected.
4.) Approach for the kiss - Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge his body or head into position—you just want to guide his movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his body or hold your guy in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let him meet you. As you move forward, keep an eye-to-eye contact.
5.) Kiss gently - There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth too hard onto his--just let your lips meet--and don’t try to push your tongue into his mouth either because he’ll back away for sure. A soft, closed-mouth-to-closed-mouth kiss is great and still ideal.
6.) Make the kiss the reason for the kiss - A lot of people (mostly men) seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing or start putting their hands in inappropriate places. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast so you won’t ruin the momentum.
7.) Breathe - If you’re kissing for a long time, it’s sometimes easy to forget to breathe. Gasping, however, or turning blue is not romantic. Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. Do not, I repeat, do not forget to breathe!
8.) Use your hands - While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don’t necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. Touch his face gently with your hands and embrace him tightly. Another turn on for the first kiss is to gently caress his shoulder while you kiss. It shows you are comfortable with him. Even if you’re a girl, you still shouldn’t forget your manners!
