Flirting Tips: The 4 Rules You Must Know to Get Her Every Time

Want to attract girls easily to you beginning RIGHT NOW? I'm about to share with you a powerful concept...

Humor.

Humor tends to come within the top 3 on those surveys that ask women what they want in a man.

Many names have been given to this concept of using humor to flirt...things like cocky-funny, simple teasing, sarcasm, and even "negging." You might have heard one or more of these names before.

What you might not know is that many guys play the humor cards the wrong way with women, and as a result, tend to blow their chances...

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If you are to get a woman laughing and SIMULTANEOUSLY attract her, there are certain principles you must understand that knowing them and following them will provide you great success with women and dating. I call them the 4 RULES of humor.

RULE #1: Keep the Clowns in the Circus and Out of Flirting

You have to walk a fine line between using humor and successfully attracting her versus acting like a clown. You won't attract women by being or acting like a clown. It can come off like you are trying too hard. You may have noticed this when other guys try to get woemn to laugh and end up making a fool out of themselves instead.

Your social status goes down if you act like a clown because you portray being more desperate...like you really badly want her to approve of you... And that's definitely bad for attraction.

Definitely no slapstick humor. This only gets women laughing AT you when you want them to laugh WITH you.

If you are thinking about learning about humor from comedians, I would think twice. Although many comedians can get women to laugh, the comedians very rarely get laid!

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RULE #2: Tease Her

Perhaps you can remember how 5th grade boys tend to act a certain way when they like a certain girl. You may notice them call the girl names or even playfully pull her hair.

Although I don't endorse pulling her hair (at least not for now), TEASING her is a fantastic way to incorporate humor into your arsenal for attracting women. You don't want to be a jerk though. What it is about is treating the girl in a way that lets her know you are completely comfortable in your own skin and that you aren't afraid of teasing her.

There are many ways you can tease her. Here are a few.....

• Giving her a nickname (my personal favorite) 
• Mocking her voice
• With humor and positive intention, change around what she says

By teasing a girl, you are assuming familiarity, and if the two of you just met and you are ALREADY teasing her, there's really no "uncomfortable period" that typically happens when two people just meet.

RULE #3: Use Your Body Language

One common pattern of great comedians is that they use their entire body as they go through their routine. I mean they involve their facial expressions, utilize props, gestures with their hands, and anything they can grab ahold of...all to get people to laugh.

Again, clown-like behavior doesn't attract women. However, make sure you use your BODY LANGUAGE in ways that ensure congruence with the things you say. One way to do this is to establish physical contact while teasing her. This shows her you are a guy who is comfortable to play around her.

Some ways to do this are... 

• Playfully swatting her
• Pushing her away, only to pull her back into a hug
• Playing games like "thumb war" and "hand slapping"

The overall concept here really is to simply break the "touch" barrier by using humor and incorporating attraction-related skills.

RULE #4: Do Other Things 

Want an analogy for using humor to attract women? Well, think of humor more like a spice than the meal itself.

By SOLELY teasing her and making her laugh, you don't provide her the opportunity to notice the other great aspects of your personality, so it is definitely important to use other things that continue to help you build (and maintain) attraction.

Some things you can do while she's laughing are...

• Establish physical contact
• Tell stories
• Create a deep emotional connection
• Pose questions to her

Doing these kinds of things give her the chance to notice you as a well-rounded individual, rather than only as someone who can make her laugh.

So, for attracting girls, one of your most powerful tools in your toolbox is humor. Be sure to get it right by adhering to the 4 rules of humor you've just read so that you can create a connection that is both flirty and fun...and always works in your favor to get the girl.

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